My life's best person --wondering who it could be right?
A person who is with me all my life, in all my happiness, all my sorrows, been my support for all the things i ever did, Gopamma, My MOM.
Yes My Mom is my Best's best friend..... Amazing isn't it, many people when they start about their best friends they say about everyone forgetting about their mom, but me.. i can never forget her, because she is everything for me.
More than a Mom she is a my friend that's why i am starting with her...
She is Highly religious, big believer of god, also big believer of ghosts ,black magic and stuff, whenever she is sick, i tease her saying " MOM , someone as done black magic on you"... ha ha! Na she is so innocent, that's the main thing. Me and Mom fight over only issue is caste, may be she believes caste is main, no not for mixing with people but for me marrying!! I say " I'll marry girl whomever i like" She says " It's OK you marry anyone you like , But see to it that she is of our caste only".
That is a never ending debate between us, But i am sure one day if i like sum one and take to her she will not say no, because she loves me more than caste.!!
I call her by her name... he he.. Ya just for fun, sum one asked me " How dare you call your mom by name ??".
I replied " She is my mom, wife to my dad, sister to her bro, and Madam to workers. every one calls by her relation, her status, if this continues she will forget her own name !!, May be one day she will wonder what my name is! , That's why i call her by name".
That person for a minute was speechless , later my mom laughed and said , "he's kidding , don't mind".
My Childhood was not like everyone .
A person who is with me all my life, in all my happiness, all my sorrows, been my support for all the things i ever did, Gopamma, My MOM.
Yes My Mom is my Best's best friend..... Amazing isn't it, many people when they start about their best friends they say about everyone forgetting about their mom, but me.. i can never forget her, because she is everything for me.
More than a Mom she is a my friend that's why i am starting with her...
She is Highly religious, big believer of god, also big believer of ghosts ,black magic and stuff, whenever she is sick, i tease her saying " MOM , someone as done black magic on you"... ha ha! Na she is so innocent, that's the main thing. Me and Mom fight over only issue is caste, may be she believes caste is main, no not for mixing with people but for me marrying!! I say " I'll marry girl whomever i like" She says " It's OK you marry anyone you like , But see to it that she is of our caste only".
That is a never ending debate between us, But i am sure one day if i like sum one and take to her she will not say no, because she loves me more than caste.!!
I call her by her name... he he.. Ya just for fun, sum one asked me " How dare you call your mom by name ??".
I replied " She is my mom, wife to my dad, sister to her bro, and Madam to workers. every one calls by her relation, her status, if this continues she will forget her own name !!, May be one day she will wonder what my name is! , That's why i call her by name".
That person for a minute was speechless , later my mom laughed and said , "he's kidding , don't mind".
My Childhood was not like everyone .
I have a elder sister , elder brother and a younger brother.
Everyone who came to my home , when i was a kid they were amused by all the three of them, hold them, play with them, But for some reason i stranded all alone, i was wondering as why not me? Also everyone would take all the three of them and buy toys, chocolates and stuffs and never me. I just use to stand watching them play with those toys. As soon as my mom observed that, she used to take me with her and play with me, and make me forget all that.
I used to forget for that moment but i always wonder why people didn't wanted me then.
Even today not many people like my attitude because i am straight forward, i don't behave different in their presence and absence, Many say i am rude and stuffs, i never gave a dam to them and said I'll be what i am.
But those incidents made me something else, i am more attached to my mom than anyone in my family.
I used to always be in her lap, i never ever gone out without her.
Once what happened was, I went to village for function, My mom said "i have some work so all four of you join your cousins[around some 20-25 cousins] and move to that village I'll join in the morning". In that excitement i went with them, then the real story began once i reached their, i started crying and saying " I need my mom".
Those days no phones also, I cried all night.
My mom was supposed to be coming may be at some 11 or 12 o clock, she arrived at 6 in the morning, When someone asked "how come you are so early in the morning?" all she said was " i wanted to see Bhanu, he doesn't live without me and i cannot live also". I know she dint sleep all night as well.
This was just one of the many incidents of my childhood!
If i keep writing this blog will be endless.
Some funny incidents now, When she sits with me on my bike i am always worried that I'll get kicked by Police person, ya that's for sure..
She doesn't sit quite when she is in hurry she says " Don't wait for the signal u just make a move"
I say " mom are you mad,police guy is their".
She says " don't worry dear, If your with ladies police will never catch you"!!
That's her logic.What a logic nah.
When she is in urgent she scolds me saying " what are You riding ?, Are you riding a CBZ or Bullock cart? Go fast if u cant let me ride it"!!
I said " Mom , their is heavy traffic sit quite don't disturb we both will fall from bike"
She replied "Son , I am your mom, if any such thing happens ,i am sitting on one side, so I'll jump before you "
I have to say this incident, i was not with her that day, My elder brother was with her, they went for shopping and my bro parked vehicle on roadside and went inside a mall for shopping, and when they came out traffic police guy demanded some 500rs for parking vehicle their ,along with that my bro dint had the documents with him as well he had left it at home.
He said i don't have the money wait let my mom come.
My mom came out and said lets go, then my bro replied saying "mom, he his demanding 500bugs".
My Mom looked at police and said "who do you think i am ? i am a ex-councillor [which she is] , you dare to take money from me?"
That policeman got scared and brought the senior officer,Then senior officer came and saying in lighter voice,"Mam its OK he doesn't know you are an ex-councillor, so please let him go" and instead he is scolding the constable itself.
You might be wondering whats funny in this?
Wait I'll say.
She came home and when she said about the incident, we were all shocked, I asked "Mom , not even once in this 5 years you ever used your position of councillor, how come today, after your term is over you used your grade?"
She calmly replied "I dint have the money dear, so I used that method, if i had money i would have paid him and come without uttering a word, to escape from him i just shouted now i am also feeling nervous what if he catches again." ha ha ha!! Every person in the home busted out laughing including herself when she said those words. Gosh she is like a kid many times.
Everyone who came to my home , when i was a kid they were amused by all the three of them, hold them, play with them, But for some reason i stranded all alone, i was wondering as why not me? Also everyone would take all the three of them and buy toys, chocolates and stuffs and never me. I just use to stand watching them play with those toys. As soon as my mom observed that, she used to take me with her and play with me, and make me forget all that.
I used to forget for that moment but i always wonder why people didn't wanted me then.
Even today not many people like my attitude because i am straight forward, i don't behave different in their presence and absence, Many say i am rude and stuffs, i never gave a dam to them and said I'll be what i am.
But those incidents made me something else, i am more attached to my mom than anyone in my family.
I used to always be in her lap, i never ever gone out without her.
Once what happened was, I went to village for function, My mom said "i have some work so all four of you join your cousins[around some 20-25 cousins] and move to that village I'll join in the morning". In that excitement i went with them, then the real story began once i reached their, i started crying and saying " I need my mom".
Those days no phones also, I cried all night.
My mom was supposed to be coming may be at some 11 or 12 o clock, she arrived at 6 in the morning, When someone asked "how come you are so early in the morning?" all she said was " i wanted to see Bhanu, he doesn't live without me and i cannot live also". I know she dint sleep all night as well.
This was just one of the many incidents of my childhood!
If i keep writing this blog will be endless.
Some funny incidents now, When she sits with me on my bike i am always worried that I'll get kicked by Police person, ya that's for sure..
She doesn't sit quite when she is in hurry she says " Don't wait for the signal u just make a move"
I say " mom are you mad,police guy is their".
She says " don't worry dear, If your with ladies police will never catch you"!!
That's her logic.What a logic nah.
When she is in urgent she scolds me saying " what are You riding ?, Are you riding a CBZ or Bullock cart? Go fast if u cant let me ride it"!!
I said " Mom , their is heavy traffic sit quite don't disturb we both will fall from bike"
She replied "Son , I am your mom, if any such thing happens ,i am sitting on one side, so I'll jump before you "
I have to say this incident, i was not with her that day, My elder brother was with her, they went for shopping and my bro parked vehicle on roadside and went inside a mall for shopping, and when they came out traffic police guy demanded some 500rs for parking vehicle their ,along with that my bro dint had the documents with him as well he had left it at home.
He said i don't have the money wait let my mom come.
My mom came out and said lets go, then my bro replied saying "mom, he his demanding 500bugs".
My Mom looked at police and said "who do you think i am ? i am a ex-councillor [which she is] , you dare to take money from me?"
That policeman got scared and brought the senior officer,Then senior officer came and saying in lighter voice,"Mam its OK he doesn't know you are an ex-councillor, so please let him go" and instead he is scolding the constable itself.
You might be wondering whats funny in this?
Wait I'll say.
She came home and when she said about the incident, we were all shocked, I asked "Mom , not even once in this 5 years you ever used your position of councillor, how come today, after your term is over you used your grade?"
She calmly replied "I dint have the money dear, so I used that method, if i had money i would have paid him and come without uttering a word, to escape from him i just shouted now i am also feeling nervous what if he catches again." ha ha ha!! Every person in the home busted out laughing including herself when she said those words. Gosh she is like a kid many times.
When i go out with her, normally we don't keep silent, we start to comment on everything , like buildings, may be posters, also girls.. ya when i like some girl going on road i say "Mom look at her she is so good". If she also like she says ya she is good if not she comments back and say "Idiot whats their in her, see this girl[pointing to some other girl] so beautiful, and we keep fighting as which one of the two is beautiful. Ya many times we keep debating in front of other people who have accompanied us,many says " what mom and son? Both are just un- believable". Many of them are jealous also, Many of my friends have said, " we wish we too had such a lovely mom".
She not only loves me but more than that she trusts me a lot as well.
Even when i dint do great in exams she used to say " I know u did your best, don't regret, I have the confidence that you will surely do better next time"
Not even once she scolded me for my studies. I am happy that i kept her promise.
Time for secrets, how it would be secret when i am sharing it here!
Whatever , few things which i never said to anyone.
When i am sad, i try all the things in world, like listening to music, Chatting with my best buddies, Seeing some comedy clips[I am a big fan of laughter challenge on Star one, i have lots of clips from it].. everything.
But if still i cant come out of it all i do is , go to my mom, put my head in her lap and sleep like a small kid,My mom not even once will ask me what happened.
Because she knows that my son is sad and needs me the most,she knows that i don't like questions being asked when i am sad, so she just puts her hands on my head and start rubbing my hairs.I sleep in her lap for around 10- 15 Min's, and then i am back normal. When i am normal she asks what happened? I just smile and say nothing but she knows whats happening with me! Only i know what i feel when i sleep in her lap..
Once on her birthday everyone gave her gifts i dint know what to give, I wrote a poem about her as a mother and gave , her eyes filled up reading and all she said was "This is the Best gift i ever received in my life". My life became complete when she said those words.
We both fight many times, every time we fight i go away for a moment or two and then come back give her a hug, she says " go away , i don't need you".
I just smile and say her name[Gopamma], she smiles back and hugs me back and that's the end of that fight.
She is the reason for my birth, she is the reason for my life, She is the reason for my happiness, she is everything for me"
I love my MOM more than anyone in this world.
Even when i dint do great in exams she used to say " I know u did your best, don't regret, I have the confidence that you will surely do better next time"
Not even once she scolded me for my studies. I am happy that i kept her promise.
Time for secrets, how it would be secret when i am sharing it here!
Whatever , few things which i never said to anyone.
When i am sad, i try all the things in world, like listening to music, Chatting with my best buddies, Seeing some comedy clips[I am a big fan of laughter challenge on Star one, i have lots of clips from it].. everything.
But if still i cant come out of it all i do is , go to my mom, put my head in her lap and sleep like a small kid,My mom not even once will ask me what happened.
Because she knows that my son is sad and needs me the most,she knows that i don't like questions being asked when i am sad, so she just puts her hands on my head and start rubbing my hairs.I sleep in her lap for around 10- 15 Min's, and then i am back normal. When i am normal she asks what happened? I just smile and say nothing but she knows whats happening with me! Only i know what i feel when i sleep in her lap..
Once on her birthday everyone gave her gifts i dint know what to give, I wrote a poem about her as a mother and gave , her eyes filled up reading and all she said was "This is the Best gift i ever received in my life". My life became complete when she said those words.
We both fight many times, every time we fight i go away for a moment or two and then come back give her a hug, she says " go away , i don't need you".
I just smile and say her name[Gopamma], she smiles back and hugs me back and that's the end of that fight.
She is the reason for my birth, she is the reason for my life, She is the reason for my happiness, she is everything for me"
I love my MOM more than anyone in this world.
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